Intra and Interpersonal Skills

at present I am going to introduce what I provoke learnt in IIC. I receive several skills that would be useful for my future, such as concentrate on positives when I am in bad moods, self-disclosure and loose positive response to criticism for better communication. However, these are not the roughly important aspects for me. This is because I cherish more on relationships. Besides, I dont ease up good relationship with family members. Also, friends cannot always be with me. Therefore, love is the only affaire I pursue in my entire life. However, there are dozens of barriers on my love path.My lovers just left me very soon and give tongue to you are too good for me. I wondered if it is just simply an relieve for breaking up with me. After the Developing and Enriching Intimate Relationship lesson, I realized the reason that none of them want to stay with me and commented I am too good for them. This is because I am having obsessive love with them, grownup them too much love and so storm. This is one of the obstacles for love to the dress down notes. On the other hand, we didnt have a mutual steering for our future. We had intimacy and passion but no commitment was involved. The first involvement I have to do is self-love.This is because obsessive love only gives pressure to the other person. To have a healthy relationship, loving yourself is essential. Then, I have to plan a long-term involvement with that person. I used to have romantic loves. However, that is not I need, what I need is the consummate love. check to Sternbergs Triangular Theory of Love, consummate love includes intimacy, passion and commitment. I will be open and honest to let my relationship grows healthy. culture to love doesnt just happen if we meet the right person. I believe if you want to have a good result, endeavor is necessary for it, even love.